Today let’s talk about something powerful: Choice.
Choice is what empowers us as men to live the life we want. It’s what keeps us out of victimhood and helps us create the experiences and boundaries we need to live fully. No matter the situation—whether it’s a relationship, your career, or even your health—choice plays a key role. The reality is, you and I have more power to choose than we often recognize. In relationships, in jobs, in almost every aspect of life, choice allows us to shape the experience we want.
When we lose sight of that power, we can fall into victimhood, feeling like life is just happening *to* us instead of for us. If you struggle with boundaries or feel trapped in certain areas of your life, I encourage you to examine how often you’re choosing what’s best for you. Are you making decisions that respect your needs, or are you letting things slide? If you find yourself lacking in boundaries, chances are you might not be fully stepping into your power to choose what’s right for you.
And here’s a key idea I want to share: You can always choose again. Whether you missed a workout, got into an argument you regret, or find yourself on a path you didn’t intend to go down—you can pause and choose again. You’re never stuck. You always have the option to course-correct, reset, and take a new direction. The idea of “choosing again” is so freeing. It means that no matter what, you have the ability to make a different choice.
So if you’re heading down a path that doesn’t feel right, stop for a moment, reflect, and decide how to choose again in alignment with the life you want to create. Take a moment today to reflect on the choices you’ve made and the ones you need to make. What’s the next choice that will lead you closer to being the best version of yourself? Where in your life are you ready to step into your power to choose?
Ultimately, you are the creator of your own destiny. You are the one who decides the direction of your life through the choices you make. So step into that power, make decisions that serve you, and create the life you want. That’s my message for you today, men. I’m Todd with Empowered Men Coaching. Have a great day! Ciao.
Author: Todd Gorishek
Todd is a certified Men’s Life Coach, an entrepreneur, a licensed healthcare professional, a husband, a father, and a world traveler. His mission is to co-create a strong and compassionate world by facilitating transformation through understanding, trust, and empowerment.
He received his professional Life Coaching education from Newfield Network, a certified Life Coach training school, and is a member of the International Coach Federation.